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The Best of Ties, the Worst of Ties: Close, Problematic, and Ambivalent Social Relationships

Birditt, Kira S; Fingerman, Karen L; Hay, Elizabeth L. (2004). The Best of Ties, the Worst of Ties: Close, Problematic, and Ambivalent Social Relationships. Journal of Marriage and the Family. 66(3), 792.